미워도 정 때문에

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"미워도 정 때문에" is a Korean phrase that can be translated to "because of affection, even if I hate you" or "despite the hate, there is still affection." It reflects the complex nature of relationships, where even amidst negative feelings like resentment or dislike, the bond of "jeong" (정/情) can still persist.

Here's a breakdown of the phrase and its implications:

• 미워도 (Miwo-do): "Even if I hate," "despite hating," or "even though I dislike." This part acknowledges the presence of negative emotions.
• 정 (Jeong): This is a complex Korean concept that doesn't have a direct English equivalent. It refers to a deep connection, affection, attachment, and bond formed over time between people (or even with places or objects). It's a feeling of loyalty, care, and shared history. It is considered to be activated when caring for the other person.
• 때문에 (Ttae-mun-e): "Because of," "due to," or "as a result of."

• Family Relationships: This phrase is very relevant in family dynamics, where disputes and frustrations may arise, but the deep bond of family ties (jeong) often prevails.
• Long-Term Friendships: Close friends who have shared a significant history might experience periods of conflict, but the accumulated jeong helps them overcome difficulties.
• Romantic Relationships: Even in troubled romantic relationships, jeong can be a powerful force that keeps people together, sometimes even in situations that might seem unhealthy from an outsider's perspective.
• It was also the name of a Korean melodrama movie, <미워도 정 때문에>, that was released in 1971.